Dating foreign friends

22 Oct

Dependent on a girls age (younger girls care less), this could be a significant deterrent when it’s layered on top of other reasons in this list.Foreigners get a bad rap of being labeled as “playboys.” It’s this label that also fuels the stereotype of foreign men having some mystical “game” when it comes to Japanese women.Charai, or the Japanese phrasing of such, is basically being called a “player.” While you can gently toss it aside (or defend yourself valiantly), chances are you already in the hole. Pointing to your condom stash when she mentions the “last train.” It can be simplified as bad manners, cultural ignorance, and poor social skills.

It doesn’t help our cause that foreign women view us as a less worthy long-term partner than a local man.

), and the public perception of “charai foreigners” is definitely at its pinnacle. And even if the plan is long term, circumstances (lost job, visa expiring, deportation) make it impossible to afford a girl the same level of “security” that a Japanese citizen can. Even if Japanese girls may have a reason to not like you, taking note of the book, and the suggestions above, will ensure you can mitigate the risk.

While you can proudly show your 30 LINE contacts named “Kaori” to your male counterparts, watch those wandering eyes when on the date with your lovely Japanese lady.

reasons why Japanese girls don’t like foreign guys, the majority of which can be summed up by one of Japan’s most relevant cultural exports: anime.

All of the artwork in this post was created by Mizuka Inaba.