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"The disruption can manifest in subtle or passive aggressive ways, such as verbal barbs or dropping in under the guise of seeing the kids." These realities make establishing a new relationship a little bit tougher, since there are a variety of emotions, feelings, and scenarios that come into play.

When you are in your 40s and re-entering the dating scene, it can be scary because you haven't done it in a while and are a little rusty.

For example, if you have kids, your new partner may feel neglected if you pay more attention to them, than her or him." If you are diving back into the dating pool in your 40s, expect Former spouses may remain in the picture — in your life or theirs — thus, creating some drama. "You or your new mate may have an ex that is trying to sabotage the new relationship," Seiter said.

Now, there's Tinder, Grindr, Facebook, Twitter, OK Cupid, and lots of other ways to meet all sorts of people.

That makes dating very exciting as long as you can sift through the ether.

Here are the ways dating is different when you are 40 and over.

Most people over 40 are established in their lives, with steady careers and families.