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I can’t even get angry with people who say polyamory is incompatible with true love. You don’t really want to argue with them so much as take them to a zoo, after which you are confident they will realize their mistake. The other thing people always bring up is the jealousy issue.

I think my boss might be half-Irish or something, although I’m not sure. There’s just no way someone seeing how boring and ordinary Irish-Americans are could continue to consider worrying about it a remotely good use of their time.Two weeks ago, Mike and I took all three of our mutual girlfriends on a group date to Sausalito.It went really well, everyone got along, and it is something we would do more often if not for scheduling and travel issues (also, Sausalito is really expensive).If there is a Heaven, I assume compersion will be a big part of its emotional repertoire. I don’t drink much, not because I’m especially virtuous but because I hate the taste of alcohol and the atmosphere of bars and parties.In the same way, I’m not promiscuous, not because I’m especially virtuous but because I’m sort of borderline asexual.In fact, this Know-Nothing would have two strikes against him if he tried to hold onto his philosophy. Whatever his predictions of doom – Irish immigration would impoverish the country, Irish immigration would lead to the US being annexed by the Vatican – those predictions have clearly been disconfirmed. He would be exposed to so many perfectly normal Irish people that his brain would have trouble even maintaining them as a separate category.It’s like the difference between your association for Chinese people being Fu Manchu versus your association being your neighbor John Chang who speaks perfect English and has a job at Google.For a twenty-eight year old, I am really good at sighing and saying “Kids these days! I was going to make an analogy to desegregation here, how white people thought having black kids in their schools would be a disaster, and then it happened, and the world didn’t collapse into a hell dimension or anything, and after a few years it just seemed like the normal order.” in a despairing tone, and that was about my response to the whole polyamory concept. But that metaphor is too weak: there’s still racism, a black kid in an all white school district probably feels really out of place, there are still even fights over segregated proms. Imagine a space-time rift brings a 19th-century Know-Nothing to your doorstep.Mike and Alicorn are really good at compersion (Mike helped set me up with his girlfriend Kenzi and was really glad it worked out) and some of this has rubbed off on me.It is a good feeling and it makes you feel good to have it.