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Which is to say: You may have already met your next boyfriend, WASTED, but his fierce field was up. Q My 13-year-old nephew, who is straight, was in a play last year. The only problem is one of the theater group's fans, who is 50 and gay, befriended my sister and seems to be fixated on my nephew: he posts to my nephew's Facebook page, he's constantly asking my sister to allow my nephew to spend the night at his apartment, etc.

I would like you to weigh in on this situation, Dan.

When it came to singles seeking same-sex relationships on Ok Cupid in particular, data showed Edgewater's 60660 ZIP code was highest in Chicago with 34 percent of the website's users from the neighborhood searching for same-sex relationships.

That is 10.7 percent more than in the traditionally gay Boystown neighborhood, which primarily falls in the 60657 ZIP code.

Your sister could be color-blind in addition to being an anger bomb—prone to rages and incapable of seeing red flags—and it's possible that your nephew already told his mother that this man makes him uncomfortable and got yelled at himself.

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His mother argues that in order to be supportive, we can't object to this relationship. And, finally, do you realize that I will tear you gay limb from gay limb if you hurt my gay kid?I know the logical thing is for me to wait, but how am I supposed to wait? —Whiny Angsty Sad Teen Entreats Dan A Sorry, WASTED, but you're gonna get the same advice I give to hard and hard-up 16-year-old straight boys: worry less about getting your 16-year-old self laid and more about getting your 20-year-old self laid.Get out of the house and do shit, get books and read shit, volunteer for a political organization and change shit.Q I'm 16 and an openly gay boy in a very welcoming community. We'll be friends again, I'm sure, but now I don't even have a hint of any sort of anything on the horizon, and it's driving me insane.All the out gay guys here are nice, but most are sassy stereotypical caricature flamer types, and I'm not attracted to any of them.The recent findings jibe with an analysis of where gay married couples lived in the city by DNAinfo last summer, which showed Andersonville, Edgewater, Uptown (60640, 60660), Lakeview (60657) and Rogers Park (60626) were the most popular areas for same-sex married couples to live.Q I am the father of a recently out 18-year-old gay boy.I don't think this is a gay-versus-straight objection. But "supportive" parents who let their gay kids get away with murder—supportive parents who stop parenting their gay kids because they worry about seeming homophobic if they object to lousy gay boyfriends, choices, apparel, etc—aren't doing their gay kids any favors, either. As for your son, OCD, tell him that you realize gay guys his age sometimes date older men because there aren't a lot of boys his own age to choose from.If I had an 18-year-old heterosexual daughter who was in a relationship with a 31-year-old man, I would have exactly the same concerns and objections. Your son, despite what he might tell you, needs his parents to advise him, meddle in his affairs, even object and interfere. (If you didn't already know that, now you do.) And tell your son that this gay dude you know—that would be me, OCD—told you that something's usually wrong when a 31-year-old is dating a teenager. There are exceptions, of course, and maybe his boyfriend is exceptional—maybe he's not a jerk who pursues naive boys because gay men his own age can see through his shit—but the simple fact of his age requires that he be subjected to a higher degree of scrutiny than a first boyfriend who was closer to your son's own age.Other family members share my suspicions, but we're afraid to say anything to my sister because she has a temper.Should I go ahead and tell my sister and brother-in-law that I think the guy is attracted to my nephew?