Marrying after 6 months dating

03 Mar

He skipped out on me and the other roommates and left us with rent, the last I had herd he had contracted aids and was in rehab. My little bro's papa has been married about six or seven times.

My mom is probably the only serious relationship he had without a marriage involved, because she said no. I think he's romantically inclined and maybe secretly a little religious.

She can't touch my money now, and she has no access to money of her own, so unless she magically gets clean, the inevitable life of crime will lead to jail.

And you can bet your ass I'm not taking the kids to lockup to visit her. As a heads up from someone who visited their mother in prison/rehab growing up, it's not all that traumatic, and I'm glad that my grandmother went through the hardship and pain it must have taken to ensure that I got to see my mother at least every once in a while.

They told me they "just knew" when they met that they were going to get married. Our fights are quick, we don't like staying mad too long.. We were talking about marriage by about 4 months and we were engaged at around 10 months. We just knew right away that we were going to get married.

In their every day married lives they are kind to each other, apologize for their mistakes, and forgive each other. The time between meeting and getting married was 15 days! Here's what worked in our favor: My biggest advice to those who decide to get married when they've only known each other for six months: Are you passionately in love? One thing our pre-marital counselor told us that really cleared our heads about it: "If you can think of any reason you be married, then don't get married."EDIT: We've been married a year and a half.

I hate that this post got submitted to late into the life of this thread, because it's honestly the best answer. I know a few people who have been married 3 times (one lady's wedding I went to was her 7th, and it only lasted about a year,) but I know many, many people who are still happily on their first marriage.

Communication with your partner/spouse/whatever is the most important aspect of any successful relationship. My dad proposed to my mom after 1 month of dating; they were in their mid twenties. One of my sisters has been married for over 25 years and the other just hit 19 years! I have a friend who's two brothers have been married over 10 times between the 2 of them! My same friend with the brothers, has a cousin who went to prison for meth.

They married less than four months later and just recently celebrated their 52 or 53 anniversary.

He has made quite the life since, and was an awesome father two his kids. It's just heart-breaking for those of us that still love them.

We still don't know where that woman is, last i heard she was in some jail down in Missouri or something. I dated a cop once who is now starting to suffer side effects of busting meth labs. When I was younger in my twenty’s I had a roommate who got hooked on meth to make a long story short the guy went through 150,000 in cash on meth and strippers in about two months.

He's amiable and friendly enough, does what is fun and feels good..

but he is not good at doing the things that need to be done if you're going to be a good father and husband.